In a mixing bowl, combine coconut milk and jaggery.
Mix well, using a whisk till the jaggery is dissolved.
Add cardamom powder, nutmeg powder and 3 tbsp chopped dry fruits .Give a quick mix.
Keep this mixture aside.
Heat 3 tbsp ghee in a pan.
Add besan and wheat flour.
Roast the besan- wheat flour mixture on a low flame till it gives out a nice aroma.
When the mixture turns aromatic, pour the coconut milk-jaggery mixture into the pan, keeping the flame at its lowest.
Keep stirring continuously and cook till the mixture thickens.
Add a pinch of salt and mix.
When the mixture starts leaving the sides of the pan, turn off the heat.
In the meanwhile, grease a cake tin using ½ tsp ghee.
Sprinkle 1 tsp wheat flour and swirl the tin so that the flour sticks to the ghee.
Pour the cooked gram flour mixture into the cake tin.
Spread evenly using a spatula.
Garnish with 2 tbsp chopped nuts.
Preheat an oven at 180 degrees for 10 minutes.
Place the cake tin in the preheated oven.
Bake at 180 degrees for 25 to 30 minutes.
Allow the baked ninaav to cool completely before cutting it into pieces.
Ninaav is ready to be served.